So, here we are with another work week in front of us (boooooo!). I’m just coming back from a wonderful best friendaversary trip with my beautiful best friend! We’re celebrating 10 wonderful years. 💕
To celebrate, we decided to go on a five day cruise to the Bahamas and honey, it was beautiful and extremely hot, but so much fun! I don’t know if any of you have been on a cruise before, but people have way less inhibitions about the way they dress, which I can appreciate. As the body positive person I am, I thought why not celebrate my body for all that it is. Every roll, every lump, every bump and cellulite. I celebrate all of it because it’s all of me.
Now, wearing a midriff top, or a bikini as a fat girl is not to be understood by many, but who cares! Fat people vacation too and if someone smaller than me can cool down by wearing her belly out, why can’t I? I choose to show my fat pockets because it’s my right to wear weather appropriate clothing YEAR ROUND.
Of course I got some stares. I always do when I break the fat girl norm, but since my body belongs to me I wear what I want. I’m not going to lie, the first time I ever wore a bikini I tugged and tugged at it looking for more material to cover my stomach. Eventually I got more comfortable in who I am and in my skin and now I rock my clothes with no regrets. It was 90 degrees in the Bahamas and this fat girl was not about to roast in pants and long sleeves to make others feel comfortable. If you don’t like what you see, DON’T LOOK.
If you’re reading this and you wonder how to get some of the black girl magic, chocolate goddess delight, fat pocket having confidence I will tell you that it takes lots of time to develop your confidence and a lot of hard work. Luckily, if you’re in the Charlotte area I provide all of the tips and tools that I use to boost myself up and remind myself of my worth in a series of workshops in my program called A Look in the Mirror. If you’re interested please sign an interest form below: